The real secret is that letting go is not an art, it is an allowing, a being.
A non-attached relationship is healty, strong and filled with effortless love, kindness, and compassion.
It is completely selfless because your sense of ‘self’ is no longer asserted in every situation.
If you want to truly let go, you’ve got to love more, not less. This is the most common misunderstanding about this priceless teaching of Zen
